What the Experts say II

Self-Defense While Dating: Experts Talk Protecting Yourself


After setting a protecting privacy on social media, we should be able to defend ourself offline. Experts strongly recommend every woman to join the preventive self-defence training. Secondly, the acquisition of a protective item, especially when dating online and meeting for the fist time offline. 



Self-defense lessons are usually a smart option because they teach how to defend yourself against an aggressive predator and at the same time gaining confidence and self-reliance. 


Even so, it’d take true dedication to be able to deploy those skills against a real-time threat“Unless you practice several times a week, the likelihood of using these skills in a high-stress situation is very unlikely,” explains Marc Abrams, a psychologist and lifelong martial artist who has taught self-protection courses (Bumble Buzz, 2020).


There are actions that can be taken to ensure own safety on a first date. Besides learning self-defence, a great alternative could be pepper spray, stun gun. Pepper spray is available in every local shop or drug store. 

Nowadays, there are a lot of small businesses that hide weapons in typical women's items. Comb knife, perfume case stun gun, personal alarm, safety kit…


Comb knife


Finally, the best case scenario is when such a situation never occurs. Pay attention to your instinct and if the danger is  detected, get out of the place as soon as possible.









References:




Bumble - Self-Defense While Dating: Experts Talk Protecting Yourself. (2020). Bumble Buzz. https://bumble.com/the-buzz/dating-safety-tips


O. (2020, May 6). Safety When Meeting Someone Online. Outist. https://outist.co/blog/safety-when-meeting-someone-online/


Pictures: 


picture 1: Léon: The Professional (1994). (2020). [Photo]. https://glassbeadjournal.com/2020/08/02/leon-the-professional/


picture 2: Self defense. (2021). [Picture]. https://www.istockphoto.com/cs/fotky/self-defense


picture 3: 9 ESSENTIAL SELF DEFENSE TOOLS FOR WOMEN. (2018). [Picture]. https://www.tbotech.com/self-defense-tools-for-women.htm




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